It is not the cult, it is your wife.
The cult clearly states that in a divided household, she is to continue wifely duties in every respect, including biblical respect towards the head of the household, you as the husband. It seems to me that perhaps you are just one of those weakling type hubbies that allows the woman to make the important decisions and take over. Well, it is time for an overhaul of sorts. Claim your rights and prepare for the outcome.
SL